#WHY SOME WOMEN CHOOSE MR. WRONG, WHEN LOOKING FOR MR. RIGHT?
WHY SOME WOMEN CHOOSE MR. WRONG, WHEN LOOKING FOR MR. RIGHT?
By: Raymond L. Carr Jr.
>Why some women choose Mr. Wrong, when they are looking for Mr. Right? Women say they cannot find a good man, but when a man who has a stable job and willing to love them just as they are (which is not always easy) they find something to complain about him. These women's thoughts are, who he is not and what he does not have, instead of who he is and what he does have.
>Women keep allowing men into their lives who are wrong for them because they are seeking the wrong qualities in a man, such as good looks, money and material things. Instead, of seeking what drives the man, they want to see what the man is driving.
>Women do not seem to notice that they always choose the same type, over and over again - the wrong man, and it never works out. Women think they have found Mr. Right only to find out they were wrong again and Mr. Right was not so right after all.
>They say, opposites attract, but similarities attracts more. Women, have to be careful in the message they send, because the wrong message can and will attract Mr. Wrong.
Picking the wrong mate time and time again, is not just bad luck, it is a pattern of a serious flaw in a personality or character. Some women, suffer from the damsel in 'distress syndrome' and believe the fairy tale of being rescued by a Knight in shining armor or kissing a frog for her Mr. Right.
>We cannot forget about women who have it going on and created an ideal man to fit into their cookie-cutter. This ideal man only exist in their minds and when men do not fit the cookie-cutter description, they get cut down and labeled Mr. Wrong.
>Even in their skepticism of men, many women ignore trouble signs due to the fear of being alone or not secure enough to leave a bad relationship. Too many women, settle and accept the wrong man as being "better than nothing" or "at least I have a man" which leaves women caught up in a vicious cycle of love, pain, and hurt.
>Women, make bad choices because they have not learned how to be found by a suitable mate. For women to free themselves from the pattern of hooking-up with the wrong man, they must first identify who they are as an individual. I suggest they analyze their past, what went wrong and why. Doing this will give them an idea of what needs to be addressed.
>Women, should ask themselves, what do they really want in life? From love? From a relationship? After a self-analysis, they should then focus on what they want in a mate.
>Women who grow up watching their mother's being abused and enduring bad relationships or who had abusive parents, or had an absentee father are usually confused about what love really is and what a good relationship should be.
A Woman's ability to enjoy a loving relationship, in most cases is directly related to her relationship with her father. An absentee father can leave a woman searching for a father figure in her relationships (affirmed, protection, and acknowledged by her father) as she seeks Mr. Right in dysfunctional relationships. Many women pick men from what they see and know.
>I asked a woman, "Why do women believe a lie, when they know it's a lie?" I was surprised with her response. She said, "Because, the lie sounds better than the truth." No wonder some women are stumbling and fumbling when it comes to the challenges of getting involved and maintaining a healthy relationship with Mr. Right.
>For women, in their wait to be found, should not fool themselves into feeling they can change men. They must also know they can not control the relationship, nor make a man love you like you want and need them to. So, pray, be patient, and look deep before you leap and your Mr. Right will find you.
Check out my blog: raymondwrites.blogspot.com & my book "Mass Incarceration: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly" by Raymond L. Carr Jr. available online @ Amazon. com
By: Raymond L. Carr Jr.
>Why some women choose Mr. Wrong, when they are looking for Mr. Right? Women say they cannot find a good man, but when a man who has a stable job and willing to love them just as they are (which is not always easy) they find something to complain about him. These women's thoughts are, who he is not and what he does not have, instead of who he is and what he does have.
>Women keep allowing men into their lives who are wrong for them because they are seeking the wrong qualities in a man, such as good looks, money and material things. Instead, of seeking what drives the man, they want to see what the man is driving.
>Women do not seem to notice that they always choose the same type, over and over again - the wrong man, and it never works out. Women think they have found Mr. Right only to find out they were wrong again and Mr. Right was not so right after all.
>They say, opposites attract, but similarities attracts more. Women, have to be careful in the message they send, because the wrong message can and will attract Mr. Wrong.
Picking the wrong mate time and time again, is not just bad luck, it is a pattern of a serious flaw in a personality or character. Some women, suffer from the damsel in 'distress syndrome' and believe the fairy tale of being rescued by a Knight in shining armor or kissing a frog for her Mr. Right.
>We cannot forget about women who have it going on and created an ideal man to fit into their cookie-cutter. This ideal man only exist in their minds and when men do not fit the cookie-cutter description, they get cut down and labeled Mr. Wrong.
>Even in their skepticism of men, many women ignore trouble signs due to the fear of being alone or not secure enough to leave a bad relationship. Too many women, settle and accept the wrong man as being "better than nothing" or "at least I have a man" which leaves women caught up in a vicious cycle of love, pain, and hurt.
>Women, make bad choices because they have not learned how to be found by a suitable mate. For women to free themselves from the pattern of hooking-up with the wrong man, they must first identify who they are as an individual. I suggest they analyze their past, what went wrong and why. Doing this will give them an idea of what needs to be addressed.
>Women, should ask themselves, what do they really want in life? From love? From a relationship? After a self-analysis, they should then focus on what they want in a mate.
>Women who grow up watching their mother's being abused and enduring bad relationships or who had abusive parents, or had an absentee father are usually confused about what love really is and what a good relationship should be.
A Woman's ability to enjoy a loving relationship, in most cases is directly related to her relationship with her father. An absentee father can leave a woman searching for a father figure in her relationships (affirmed, protection, and acknowledged by her father) as she seeks Mr. Right in dysfunctional relationships. Many women pick men from what they see and know.
>I asked a woman, "Why do women believe a lie, when they know it's a lie?" I was surprised with her response. She said, "Because, the lie sounds better than the truth." No wonder some women are stumbling and fumbling when it comes to the challenges of getting involved and maintaining a healthy relationship with Mr. Right.
>For women, in their wait to be found, should not fool themselves into feeling they can change men. They must also know they can not control the relationship, nor make a man love you like you want and need them to. So, pray, be patient, and look deep before you leap and your Mr. Right will find you.
Check out my blog: raymondwrites.blogspot.com & my book "Mass Incarceration: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly" by Raymond L. Carr Jr. available online @ Amazon. com
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